One thing that can drain the life out of a marriage faster than  anything… is constantly fighting. 

Does that describe your marriage? If it does, we want to encourage you! Hope is definitely not lost! I know it may feel like you can’t get out of that rut you’re in, but you can with a lot of love and grace. We know because we’ve had to learn how to do it ourselves! And we learned the hard way, but we did learn how. So, if you’re married and you’re stuck in this cycle, we want you to take a deep breath and grab a cup of coffee. Some of the things we’ve learned can help you stop constantly fighting in your marriage.  

Here are our bullet points:

• Be slow to speak
• Be aware of your own sinfulness
• Avoid difficult discussions through texting
• Establish boundaries for arguing
• Submit to each other out of reverence for Christ

Married Couples Argue

If you’re married, you’ve had arguments. Disagreements are going to happen. But what we want to talk about is when you get into a consistent pattern of fighting. We can go through seasons in marriage that can be really difficult. As a result, it can become exhausting and wear you down quickly. 

So, go check it out HERE! We really believe it can help you stop constantly fighting in your marriage.

Hope Is Not Lost

If you’re married and you’re fighting a lot, please know that you’re not alone. Most married couples have gone through seasons just like the one you’re in. Remember that if you don’t know what to do, the Bible is a great place to turn. It’s an amazing resource you can reference to gain a clearer understanding of how He wants you to live your life. And don’t forget to pray for your marriage, and your spouse, as well.

And remember who that person is you’re fighting with.

That person is the Love of Your Life!

Choose them over the conflict. Every time. Fight FOR them, not against them.

And if you haven’t read it yet, check out this article on What Is the Secret Sauce In Every Successful Marriage?